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Love letters reveal Nixon's sensitive side

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Published : March 13, 2012 - 13:27

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When Richard Nixon first met his future bride, he was so smitten he pined for her night and day, he schemed of romantic getaways and he put it all down in writing.

Decades before he became known to some as ``Tricky Dick,'' Nixon was the one penning nicknames (sweet ones) to his future bride in gushy love notes that reveal a surprisingly soft and starry-eyed side of the man taken down by the Watergate scandal. Nixon shared the stage with Patricia Ryan in a community theater production and six of the dozens of letters they exchanged during their two-year courtship will be unveiled Friday at the Richard Nixon Presidential Library and Museum as part of an exhibit celebrating the 100th birthday of the woman Nixon playfully called his ``Irish gypsy.''

In Nixon's letters, he recalls their first meeting in flowery prose, daydreams about their future together and waxes poetic about the first time his ``dearest heart'' agreed to take a drive with him.

``Every day and every night I want to see you and be with you. Yet I have no feeling of selfish ownership or jealousy,'' he writes in one undated letter. ``Let's go for a long ride Sunday; let's go to the mountains weekends; let's read books in front of fires; most of all, let's really grow together and find the happiness we know is ours.''

Eighteen years after his death, the correspondence offers a tiny window into a fiercely private side of Nixon that almost no one ever saw and represents a love letter of sorts to fans of the 37th president, who were infuriated when the National Archives took over the museum and overhauled it to include a detailed chronicle of Watergate.

``These letters are fabulous. It's a totally different person from the Watergate tapes that people know. President Nixon started out as an idealistic young man ready to conquer the world and with Pat Ryan he knew he could do it. There's a lot of hope, there's a lot of tenderness and it's very poetic,'' said Olivia Anastasiadis, supervisory museum curator.

``He loved her, he was absolutely enthralled by her and that's all he thought about.''

The letters stand in stark contrast to the grim-faced leader forced to resign in 1974 in disgrace.

Instead, Nixon comes across as an ardent and persistent suitor in the letters, which date from 1938 to just before the couple's marriage in June 1940.

The two met while auditioning for ``The Dark Tower'' in the Southern California town of Whittier and dated for two years until Nixon proposed to his sweetheart on the south Orange County cliffs overlooking the Pacific Ocean. He later delivered her engagement ring in a small basket overflowing with mayflowers. They were married in a small ceremony on June 21, 1940.

The romantic touch and chivalry that Nixon brought to his seaside proposal comes through in the letters, as well.

In two of the handwritten notes, Nixon _ raised a Quaker _ uses ``thee'' instead of ``you'' to refer to his future bride, a pronoun that signals a special closeness in the Quaker tradition. He also writes about himself in the third person, referring to himself as a ``prosaic person'' whose heart was nonetheless ``filled with that grand poetic music'' upon knowing her.

``Somehow on Tuesday there was something electric in the usually almost stifling air in Whittier. And now I know. An Irish gypsy who radiates all that is happy and beautiful was there. She left behind her a note addressed to a struggling barrister who looks from a window and dreams. And in that note he found sunshine and flowers, and a great spirit which only great ladies can inspire,'' Nixon wrote. ``Someday let me see you again? In September? Maybe?''

A much more practical _ and somewhat less impulsive _ Pat Ryan replies in one short note: ``In case I don't see you before why don't you come early Wednesday (6) _ and I'll see if I can burn a hamburger for you.'' The object of Nixon's affection was slower to come around, but eventually was just as smitten with Nixon as he was with her, said Ed Nixon, Nixon's youngest brother, in a phone interview from his Seattle home.

``She was quite an independent young lady and she was very cautious about anyone she met and if they couldn't smile, she wouldn't want to do too much unless she could make them smile. That captured Dick's imagination,'' the younger Nixon said. ``She was challenging. She challenged me and I think she challenged Dick.''

Nixon's presidency began to unravel in 1972 when burglars who were later tied to his re-election committee broke into the Democratic Party's national headquarters at the Watergate building complex to get dirt on his political adversaries. Nixon denied knowing about plans for the break-in beforehand, but an 18 1/2 minute gap in a recording of a post-Watergate White House meeting led many to suspect a cover-up.

Faced with impeachment and a possible criminal indictment, Nixon resigned on Aug. 9, 1974, and retreated to his native California. The following month he was granted a pardon by President Gerald Ford.

Pat Nixon never doubted her husband and stood by him until she died in 1993, a day after their 53rd wedding anniversary, said Robert Bostock, a consultant to the Richard Nixon Foundation, which is co-sponsoring the exhibit, and a former aide to Nixon after he left the White House.

Her loyalty and spirit was a testament to their love and part of what bound them together from the earliest days of their courtship in Whittier, when he was a young attorney and she a high school stenography teacher fresh out of college.

``She was with him the whole way; she never lost faith in him. Her feeling was that it was the country's loss when he had to resign, that he had accomplished so much good and had so much more good to accomplish,'' Bostock said. ``Her favorite saying was, `Onward and upward.' She spent no time looking back. She was always looking forward.'' (AP)

 

<한글 기사>

前대통령의 연애편지 공개돼

워터게이트 추문으로 미국 역사에 불명예스러운 대통령으로 기록된 리처드 닉슨이 20대 꿈많던 시절 당시 교제 중이던 아내에게 보낸 연애편지가 공개돼 관심을 모으고 있다.

미국 캘리포니아주(州) 요바린다의 리처드 닉슨 대통령 도서관•박물관 측은 닉슨의 부인 패트리샤 여사의 100번째 생일을 맞아 오는 16일(현지시간) 닉슨의 연애 편지 수십통 가운데 6통을 공개할 예정이라고 12일 밝혔다.

두 사람은 1938년 캘리포니아주 남부 휘티어의 한 지역 극단 오디션장에서 처음 만나 약 2년간의 교제 끝에 1940년 6월 결혼하기에 이른다.

일부 공개된 연애편지에는 패트리샤를 향한 '청년' 닉슨의 순수하고도 피 끓는 사랑이 애절하게 잘 드러나 있다.

닉슨은 편지에서 "매일 낮과 밤 나는 당신을 보고 싶고, 함께 있고 싶어요. 하지만 이기적으로 당신을 소유하려 하거나 질투에 사로잡힌 감정은 아닙니다"라고 말했다.

또한 닉슨은 패트리샤에게 주말 드라이브 데이트를 청하면서 "주말에 산으로 놀러 갑시다. 모닥불 앞에서 책도 읽구요. 무엇보다 당신과 함께 성장하고 행복을 찾고 싶어요"라고 사랑을 고백했다.

또 다른 편지에서 닉슨은 '당신(you)'이라는 말 대신 '그대(thee)'라는 표현을 사용하며 패트리샤로 인해 자신의 삶이 얼마나 변했는지를 설명했다.

그는 "답답하기만 했던 휘티어에 활기가 찾아온 것은 어떤 아일랜드 아가씨가 행복과 아름다움을 발산하고 있기 때문이 아니겠소?"라고 말했다. 

닉슨이 '낭만주의자'였다면 패트리샤는 '현실주의자'였다.

미사여구로 가득한 닉슨의 편지에 패트리샤는 "수요일에 놀러 오세요. 상황 봐서 햄버거 만들어 드릴게요"라고 짧게 답변할 뿐이었다.

그러나 '무뚝뚝한 아가씨' 패트리샤는 워터게이트로 남편이 대통령직에서 물러났을 때도 그에 대한 믿음을 잃지 않았으며 과거에 얽매이지 않고 앞을 바라보는 진취적인 아내가 돼줬다고 리처드 닉슨 재단의 컨설턴트 로버트 보스톡은 말했다.